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		<title>Teaching Themes Emerge at CATESOL: Use Technology To Meet Student Needs</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2009 05:22:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Several other CATESOL presenters also lead workshops and shared materials and techniques to incorporate the internet, radio, and other authentic materials into ESL classrooms. While few other presenters used the word “democratic”, many other ESL professionals noted the need to be “student-centered” and include “critical thinking.” More and more English teachers, even the pseudo-Luddites, have become aware of teaching potential of 21st century technologies - and the ability to tailor English instruction to individual student needs.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do ESL teachers want a more democratic classroom? Perhaps the workshop description discouraged <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English teachers</a>, the title seemed too bold, or the other two dozen workshops held at the same time appeared more practical. </p>
<p><strong>Techniques and Methods for a More Democratic Classroom<br />
A more democratic classroom encourages student speech, features student created content, allows student choice of assignments, reflects student interests, and includes peer evaluations. Democratic classrooms create autotelic students where we learn by making good mistakes. Handouts.<br />
</strong></p>
<p>For whatever reason, my CATESOL workshop on “Classroom Techniques and Practices for a More Democratic Classroom” only attracted around 20 ESL teachers – and a few left early after taking the 12-page handout of reproducible lessons. Yet the ESL teachers who stayed asked good questions, shared examples to support my thesis, and several expressed gratitude. Consider me basically satisfied. </p>
<p>Several other CATESOL presenters also lead workshops and shared materials and techniques to incorporate the internet, radio, and other authentic materials into ESL classrooms. While few other presenters used the word “democratic”, many other ESL professionals noted the need to be “student-centered” and include “critical thinking.” More and more <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English teachers</a>, even the pseudo-Luddites, have become aware of teaching potential of 21st century technologies &#8211; and the ability to tailor instruction to individual student needs.</p>
<p>I still wonder, however, why the idea of a more democratic classroom where students hunt and gather their own source materials to develop their language skills seems strange to so many <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English teachers</a>. To me, it seems absolutely natural to guide students toward becoming self-directed, or autotelic, learners. Here are three handouts that I shared at my CATESOL workshop on Friday toward that goal. Use or lose. You choose. </p>
<p>Ask more. Know more. Share more.<br />
Create Compelling Conversations.<br />
Visit <a href="http://www.CompellingConversations.com">www.CompellingConversations.com</a> </p>
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		This I Believe Homework Worksheet</p>
<p>Links: This I Believe</p>
<p>http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=4538138</p>
<p>Please select one radio segment, based on a personal essay, and read by writers. Find a story that resonates with you. Listen carefully. Take notes. Fill out the worksheet below. You will be asked to share your selection with classmates in both a small group and the entire class.</p>
<p>Student:<br />
This I Believe Title:<br />
Author/Reader:<br />
Length:</p>
<p>Who is the author?</p>
<p>What’s the main idea?</p>
<p>Why did you choose this podcast?</p>
<p>Did you hear any new words or phrases?<br />
1.<br />
2.<br />
3.</p>
<p>Who do you imagine is the audience for this podcast? Why?</p>
<p>What is your reaction? Why?</p>
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PRESENTATION<br />
PEER REVIEW</p>
<p>TOPIC:</p>
<p>PEER:</p>
<p>GOOD TO SEE</p>
<p>POINTS TO WORK ON</p>
<p>BEST PART</p>
<p>WEAKEST PART</p>
<p>OBSERVATION TIPS</p>
<p>Please circle the appropriate overall rating 1-10 (10=BEST)<br />
1	2	3	4	5	6	7	8	9	10</p>
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			Getting Job Interview Advice from YouTube!  </p>
<p>Student Name:<br />
Class:<br />
Teacher:<br />
School:<br />
Date:</p>
<p>Please find an YouTube videoclip that helps people successfully interview for jobs – in English &#8211; that you would like to share with your classmates. Watch the video, take notes, and review it for your classmates.</p>
<p>Video title:<br />
Web address:<br />
Length:<br />
Creator:						 </p>
<p>Please describe the video.  </p>
<p>What interview tips did the video provide?  </p>
<p>Where do you think the video was produced? Why? </p>
<p>How practical did you find the advice? Why? </p>
<p>What was the strongest part? Why?</p>
<p>What was the weakest part? Why?</p>
<p>Who do think is the target audience for this video?</p>
<p>Why did you choose this video?</p>
<p>How would you rate this video 1-5 stars? Why? </p>
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		<title>Worksheet &#8211; or Cheat Sheet &#8211; for English Teachers to Observe Conversations and Lead Class Discussions</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 03:21:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many English teachers, especially novice ESL instructors, talk more than ideal - and allow their English students to talk too little. Ironically, many ESL instructors make this "good mistake" because they are so dedicated. What, after all, are they supposed to do while students exchange ideas and practice their speaking skills? 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What do you do while students are having conversations or talking in pairs? Do you have a &#8220;formula&#8221; for taking notes? Do you focus more on fluency or accuracy? </p>
<p>Many <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English teachers</a>, especially novice ESL instructors, talk more than ideal &#8211; and allow their English students to talk too little. Ironically, many ESL instructors make this &#8220;good mistake&#8221; because they are so dedicated. What, after all, are they supposed to do while students exchange ideas and practice their <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">speaking skills</a>? </p>
<p>When I taught an advanced ESL conversation class to immigrants and international students from many different countries at Santa Monica Community College, I developed a little routine. </p>
<p>First, I introduced conversation topics with a quotation or proverb and briefly introduce the day&#8217;s topic. Then I distribute worksheets (which became chapters in Compelling Conversations) with 30 or so questions, 10 or 12 key vocabulary words, and a few selected quotations or proverbs. Then students would  be paired up to interview each other and share experiences for 20-30 minutes. </p>
<p>What did I do? I simply circled around the room, briefly joining in conversations, taking notes, and indirectly correcting students by modeling a better way to ask or respond to questions. I also jotted down key comments and &#8220;good mistakes&#8221; &#8211; both grammar and pronunciation &#8211; that I would later share with the entire class. Further, I focused on the content of student comments so fluency and meaning was more important than accuracy. Ideas and perceptions mattered more than perfect grammar. </p>
<p>These notes, however, helped me guide the classroom discussion because it closely echoed their previous conversations. It also lead to dynamic discussions because several perspectives were acknowledged and considered. </p>
<p>Taking notes also gave me a chance to emphasize certain sound groups or related word forms. While the students were talking to each other, I was playing reporter and taking notes. </p>
<p>Here is a reproducible worksheet that captures that process of monitoring conversations and leading discussions. Use or lose. </p>
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Compelling Conversation Classroom Worksheet for Teachers</p>
<p>Topic:					Pages:				Date:<br />
# of participants:			# of groups:			Room:</p>
<p>Opening Quote:</p>
<p>Opening comments to class:</p>
<p>Starting time for conversations:</p>
<p>Conversation content:<br />
	- What did you hear the students say? Summarize. </p>
<p>Follow-up class discussion questions: </p>
<p>Review Vocabulary: </p>
<p>Pronunciation tips:</p>
<p>Grammar issues: </p>
<p>Other comments/observations:  </p>
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<p>Ask more. Know more. Share more.<br />
Create Compelling Conversations.<br />
Visit www.CompellingConversations.com </p>
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		<title>Teaching Interview Skills Vital for Adult ESL, University Students</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 09:08:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How can English teachers encourage adult and university students to expand their language skills and improve their employment opportunities in a difficult economic climate? Personally, I&#8217;ve slightly modified my oral skills course this semester to provide greater emphasis on interviewing skills. Students interviewed each other for 10-15 minute videotaped mock job interviews for their first [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How can <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English teachers</a> encourage adult and university students to expand their language skills and improve their employment opportunities in a difficult economic climate?</p>
<p>Personally, I&#8217;ve slightly modified my oral skills course this semester to provide greater emphasis on interviewing skills. Students interviewed each other for 10-15 minute videotaped mock job interviews for their first assignment.</p>
<p>The use of videotaping students in class has gained far more acceptance in the last few years, partly due to the technological advances. OTAN, the adult education website established by the California Department of Education, even created an entire section devoted to using videotapes and videocameras in the adult ESL classes.</p>
<p>Another factor has been the increasing popularity of YouTube videoclips by students seeking practical information. I&#8217;ve combined those two trends by requiring students to find and review YouTube clips on vital employment skills and <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">speaking skills</a>. Students found and reviewed videoclips, and emailed them in as homework. Afterwards, I combined all the student evaluations into a single email that I sent to the entire class with a few editorial comments and minor editing.</p>
<p>Here is the homework sheet for that assignment. As with the reviews, &#8220;use or lose.&#8221;			</p>
<p>Getting Job Interview Advice from YouTube!  </p>
<p>Student Name:<br />
Class:<br />
Teacher:<br />
School:<br />
Date:</p>
<p>Please find an YouTube videoclip that helps people successfully interview for jobs – in English &#8211; that you would like to share with your classmates. Watch the video, take notes, and review it for your classmates.</p>
<p>Video title:<br />
Web address:<br />
Length:<br />
Creator:						 </p>
<p>Please describe the video.  </p>
<p>What interview tips did the video provide?  </p>
<p>Where do you think the video was produced? Why? </p>
<p>How practical did you find the advice? Why? </p>
<p>What was the strongest part? Why?</p>
<p>What was the weakest part? Why?</p>
<p>Who do think is the target audience for this video?</p>
<p>Why did you choose this video?</p>
<p>How would you rate this video 1-5 stars? Why?<br />
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<p>This simple worksheet combines research, critical thinking, and language skills. As <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English teachers</a>, we can use simple technology to help <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English language learners</a> develop their language skills, especially when they are motivated to learn and search out new sources. Instead of dismissing YouTube searching as a waste of time, let&#8217;s turn their interests into productive learning opportunities and share insights. After all, employment interviews often serve as a real-world language tests for our ESL students.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s make sure we give them the tools to pass those crucial tests.</p>
<p>Ask more. Know more. Share more.<br />
Create Compelling Conversations.<br />
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		<title>Do you match? How do you know? Bringing Realism to Relationship discussions in ESL Classrooms</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[1. Why do (did) you want to get married?
2. Do (did) you have a checklist of qualities for a potential spouse?
3. What are the three main qualifications on your checklist? Partner?
Provider? Lover? Friend?
4. When did you fall in love? Did one person fall first? Who?
5. How did you know your lover was the one? How did your thinking
evolve?
6. Did you ever have moments of doubt? How did your thinking evolve?
7. Do you think people should live together before they get married?
Why? Can you share some examples?

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you romantically involved? Do you match your partner? How do you know? Who will you choose to share your life with? Are you considering marriage? Are you already married? Use these questions as a springboard to reflect on your options, choices, and desires on this Valentine&#8217;s Day. </p>
<p>Here is chapter #33 from Compelling Conversations that many friends have told me is better for native speakers than <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English language learners</a> or ESL classrooms. Perhaps they are right. On the other hand, I&#8217;ve had great conversations in my adult ESL and college ESL classes using this chapter too.</p>
<p>As both a happily married man of 14 years and the child of divorced parents, these  questions seem like smart questions to ask &#8211; even for romantics on Valentine&#8217;s Day. Perhaps especially on Valentine&#8217;s Day when the official propaganda of &#8220;love will conquer all&#8221; seems so pervasive. So whether <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English teachers</a> ask themselves, their partner, or their students these questions, I&#8217;d like to share this list on my blog tonight.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m also including a short videoclip from Discovery News that I found quite interesting on the origins of kissing and how that satisfying activity is believed to have spread around the globe. Enjoy! </p>
<p><a href='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e4gcT7f-4lY' >The Skinny on Smooching from Discovery News</a></p>
<p>1. Why do (did) you want to get married?<br />
2. Do (did) you have a checklist of qualities for a potential spouse?<br />
3. What are the three main qualifications on your checklist? Partner?<br />
Provider? Lover? Friend?<br />
4. When did you fall in love? Did one person fall first? Who?<br />
5. How did you know your lover was the one? How did your thinking<br />
evolve?<br />
6. Did you ever have moments of doubt? How did your thinking evolve?<br />
7. Do you think people should live together before they get married?<br />
Why? Can you share some examples?<br />
8. Are sex, love and marriage linked in your mind, or is each separate?<br />
How are they different?<br />
9. What are some endearing qualities of your companion?<br />
10. Do you like your partner’s friends? Do you respect them? Why?<br />
11. What advice have your parents and close friends given you? Your<br />
extended family? How important is their opinion in your decision? Why?<br />
12. Do you think you are marrying only an individual or are you also<br />
marrying your spouse’s family? How would you describe your<br />
potential in-laws?<br />
13. What does your partner do that annoys you?<br />
14. Do you expect to be the pilot, co-pilot, or passenger in the<br />
marriage? Why?<br />
15. What, if anything, would definitely cause you to divorce? Why?</p>
<p>Q U E S T I O N S A N D Q U OTAT I O N S O N T I M E L E S S TO P I C S • 1 0 5<br />
V O C A B U L A R Y<br />
Review these words and expressions. Circle the words that you know.<br />
potential &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
neat freak &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..<br />
spouse &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..<br />
nupital &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
conflicts &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..<br />
checklist &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..<br />
resolve &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
pre-nuptial &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;<br />
compatible &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;<br />
pack rat &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..<br />
justify &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;<br />
evolve &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..</p>
<p>P R O V E R B S<br />
What do these proverbs mean? Can you share some other proverbs?<br />
The needle is always accompanied by the thread.—Korean<br />
Strange is the affinity that binds two in marriage.—Japanese<br />
Whoever marries only for beauty will live in misery.—Russian</p>
<p>T H E C O N V E R S A T I O N C O N T I N U E S …<br />
1. Thinking about personal preferences, do you like to stay up late or<br />
get up early? Do you have compatible sleeping habits?<br />
2. Do you have similar media habits? What about tastes in TV shows<br />
and movies?<br />
3. Where do you prefer to live? Country? City? Farm? Apartment?<br />
House?<br />
4. Are you a pack rat? Are you a neat freak? Are your styles<br />
compatible?<br />
5. Will you still love your partner when he or she is 64? Will your<br />
partner love you with wrinkles?<br />
6. Do you know an older couple that might be a model for a good<br />
partnership? Who are they?<br />
7. What activities do you enjoy in your leisure time? Will your spouse<br />
join you?<br />
8. Do you and your lover share spending philosophies? Do you shop<br />
together?<br />
9. Do you expect to live with older generations? Who? Why? Where?<br />
When?<br />
10. What is your approach to settling conflicts? How often do you have<br />
conflicts?<br />
11. Do you want children? How many?<br />
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<p>12. Do you believe in birth control? Why?<br />
13. How do you think your baby would look like? Why?<br />
14. What kind of parent do you expect your spouse to become? Why?<br />
15. Would you want your sons to be like the man you’re marrying?<br />
Would you want your daughters to be like the woman you’re<br />
marrying?<br />
16. Do you expect to follow family or religious traditions? Which ones?<br />
Why?<br />
17. If disagreements arise about children, how do you expect to<br />
resolve them?<br />
18. Do you think all money should be shared or should each spouse<br />
have separate bank accounts? Why? How do you expect to<br />
manage household expenses?<br />
19. What were the best gifts that you’ve given or received in the<br />
relationship?<br />
20. What passions do you share? What unites you as a couple?<br />
21. Do you have a favorite photograph of you as a couple? Can you<br />
describe it?<br />
22. Where do you want to travel together? What do you want to see<br />
together?<br />
23. What are you looking forward to doing together as a married<br />
couple?<br />
24. How do you expect your life to change once you are married?<br />
What are some advantages of being married?<br />
25. Do you have any tips or suggestions on how to create and preserve<br />
a happy marriage?</p>
<p>Q U O T A T I O N S<br />
Which two quotations come closest to your attitudes?<br />
1. “By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you’ll become happy;<br />
if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.”<br />
—Socrates (470-339 BC), Greek philosopher<br />
2. “Man’s best possession is a sympathetic wife.”<br />
—Euripides (480-406 BC), playwright<br />
3. “I’m so gullible. I’m so damn gullible. And I am so sick of being<br />
gullible.”<br />
—Lana Turner (1921-1995), Hollywood star married seven times<br />
4. “Love is the ideal thing, marriage a real thing; a confusion of the<br />
real with the ideal never goes unpunished.”<br />
—Goethe (1749-1832), German poet, novelist, and scientist<br />
5. “Marriage is a great institution, but I’m not ready for an<br />
institution.”<br />
—Mae West (1892-1980), American actress<br />
7. “Love means never having to say you’re sorry.”<br />
—Ali McGraw in Love Story (1970)</p>
<p>“Love is the ideal thing, marriage a real<br />
thing; a confusion of the real with the ideal<br />
never goes unpunished.”<br />
Goethe (1749-1832),<br />
German poet, novelist, and scientist</p>
<p>Q U E S T I O N S A N D Q U OTAT I O N S O N T I M E L E S S TO P I C S • 1 0 7</p>
<p>8. “Marriage: A word that should be pronounced ‘mirage.’”<br />
—Herbert Spencer (1820-1903), English philosopher<br />
9. “No matter who you get married to, you wake up married to<br />
somebody else.”<br />
—Marlon Brando in Guys and Dolls (1955)<br />
10. “Second marriage: the triumph of hope over experience.”<br />
—Dr. Samuel Johnson (1709-1784), English writer<br />
11. “Marriage is a very good thing, but I think it’s a mistake to make a<br />
habit of it.”<br />
—W. Somerset Maugham (1874-1965), English novelist<br />
12. “A happy marriage is a long conversation that always seems too<br />
short.”<br />
—Andre Maurois (1885-1967), French author<br />
13. “A successful marriage is not a gift; it is an achievement.”<br />
—Ann Landers (1918-2002), American advice columnist<br />
★<br />
O N Y O U R O W N<br />
With your class partner, list three celebrity marriages that have ended in divorce. For each couple who divorced, list two reasons you think their marriage did not last.<br />
Then, list three marriages of well known people that have lasted<br />
more than 20 years. For each couple, list two reasons why you<br />
think their marriage lasted. Share  with the class.<br />
1. &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
2. &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
3. &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
1. &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
2. &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
3. &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
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<p>As a new semester begins, I face the familiar task &#8211; and pleasure &#8211; of selecting new materials and creating new forms for my oral skills class. One goal is to have students use the internet more; another to provide more opportunities for peer feedback on oral presentations.</p>
<p>Although I do not have a conversation class this semester, I do teach a high intermediate oral skills class that focuses on academic presentations. The students come from several Asian countries and are all graduate students &#8211; almost exclusively in engineering. Workplace surveys continue to identify communication skills, including <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">speaking skills</a>, as a top priority for employers &#8211; especially in engineering!</p>
<p>The class will include several informal, short presentations in addition to the longer, more formal presentations that receive a grade.  Whenever possible, I prefer to give students to receive fairly immediate feedback, from their peers and me, on their presentations.  Students, as a result, will read peer evaluations from the entire class after giving a short presentation like a product review, extended definition, or process description. To be effective, the form must be both simple and open&#8230; with some guidance. This collective feedback often validates instructor comments and prepares students to view their videotaped presentations in a more objective manner.</p>
<p>Here is my new form for peer evaluations of oral presentations.It emphasizes the positive aspects, inquires about what can be improved, allows more detailed observations, and provides a simple rating system. I have used a similar format with my engineering communication courses and expect that it will work in my ESL class too. Time will tell.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Century Schoolbook&quot;;">STUDENT: <span> </span><span> </span>­­­­­­­­­­­­­­____________________________________________________</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Century Schoolbook&quot;;">POINTS   TO WORK ON:</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Century Schoolbook&quot;;">BEST   PART:</span></p>
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