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		<title>The Language of Opportunity &#8211; Wabash profiles an English Teacher</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Sep 2011 02:03:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Eric Roth</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Most of the book’s prompts ask for recollections or personal opinions.“Whatever perspective you bring to the book, I want you to find validation in some great thinker, that it’s okay to see things that way. That gives us all the freedom to be ourselves and less of who we think we should be, or who we’ve been programmed or conditioned to be.” 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/eric-at-Wabash-21.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-510" title="eric at Wabash 2" src="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/eric-at-Wabash-21-300x199.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="199" /></a>Small American colleges often love their ambitious graduates. <a title="Wabash College" href="http://www.wabash.edu/">Wabash College</a>, my alma mater and outstanding private liberal arts college in Indiana, certainly celebrates her favorite sons and treats them like stars. This fall’s <a title="Wabash College Magazine" href="http://www.wabash.edu/magazine/">Wabash Magazine</a> advises graduates to “Look East, Young Man” as it celebrates the opening of the College&#8217;s new Asian Studies Center.</p>
<p>Inside, the magazine editor describes a <a title="Language of Opportunity" href="http://www.wabash.edu/magazine/index.cfm?news_id=9126">&#8220;Language of Opportunity&#8221;</a> article as &#8220;Eric Roth ’84 recounts how his attempt to start a free-thinking university in Vietnam led to the realization that the spread of the English language—in part through his own conversational English primer—may be the more immediate path to freedom of thought and expression in the region.&#8221;</p>
<p>Fortunately, the <a title="artilce" href="http://www.wabash.edu/magazine/index.cfm?news_id=9126">article </a>also provides a larger context of teaching English in a closed (but still opening) society. The writer, Steve Charles, also explores the difficulties of adapting <a title="Compelling Conversations" href="http://www.CompellingConversations.com">Compelling Conversations ,</a> an advanced conversation for ESL (English as a Second Language) students into an acceptable EFL (English as a Foreign Language) textbook, and explains how I came to publish two very different English language conversation textbooks. Please note that the <a title="the original ESL book" href="http://www.CompellingConversations.com">original ESL book</a> has 45 chapters, including &#8220;Voting&#8221;, and the EFL version for <a href="http://www.compellingconversations.com/about-the-book-vietnam.php">Vietnamese English Language Learners</a> has 15 chapters with more vocabulary definitions.</p>
<p>&#8220;In addition to teaching at the University of Southern California, the former congressional aide and journalist (Roth) is co-author of <a title="Compelling Conversations: Questions and Quotations on Timeless Topics" href="http://www.CompellingConversations.com">Compelling Conversations: Questions and Quotations on Timeless Topics</a>. The book is an alternative text for teaching conversational English as a second language (ESL). It is recommended by a leading trade journal of English teaching professionals.”</p>
<p>The three-page glossy magazine<a title="profile" href="http://www.wabash.edu/magazine/index.cfm?news_id=9126"> piece </a>continues to provide perspective and illuminate the role of English in the 21st century. “And in case you haven’t noticed, English is well on its way to becoming the world’s dominant language,” writes Charles.</p>
<p>“This is the first time in world history we actually have a language spoken genuinely globally by every country of the world,” writes David Crystal in English as a Global Language. As of 2005, almost a quarter of the world’s population spoke English as a native or second language. It is the de facto language of commerce and diplomacy. More than 80 percent of information stored on the Internet is in English. And while there are more speakers of Chinese, Spanish, and Hindi, they speak English when they talk across cultures, and it is English they teach their children in order to give them a chance in the world economy. More than 20,000 ESL teaching jobs are posted monthly; no longer a fallback, teaching ESL is becoming a lucrative first or second career. Some experts predict that by 2030 more than half the world’s population will speak English.”</p>
<p align="">Reading those simple, powerful facts about the explosion of English renewed my appreciation for our role as <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English teachers</a> today. English remains the language of opportunity for millions seeking to study, work, and move abroad.  The article allows me to explain. “I had been teaching ESL to immigrants, and I knew English was essential to their lives in the U.S., but on this trip we saw English as a truly global language. It is the gateway to a modern world, and to 21st century lives. And in countries like Vietnam and other developing nations, English is sometimes the only accessible means to advance yourself.” This insight lead to the title &#8220;the language of opportunity&#8221;.</p>
<p align="">The article also describes the educational philosophy behind <a title="Compelling Conversations" href="http://www.CompellingConversations.com">Compelling Conversations </a>.</p>
<p align="">&#8220;Combining his teaching experience and his liberal arts background, Roth collaborated with his mother, Toni Aberson—an English teacher for 35 years—to self-publish the first edition of the book. Dedicated to his father, Dani Roth—who spoke six languages and “could talk with almost anyone”—the book provides an alternative to “presentation-practice-production” approach to language learning, instead using quotations, questions, and proverbs to prompt conversation.&#8221;</p>
<p align="">“Some [quotes and questions] will have students roaring with laughter, while others require careful introspection,” wrote a reviewer (Hall Houston) for the ESL journal English Teaching Professional. “They are highly effective for promoting student discussion.”</p>
<p align=""> “In the classroom and in the book we try to create a space that’s tolerant and rigorous at the same time,” Roth says. “The focus is on learning by doing, and we want to give people room to make good mistakes—errors that help us learn. When people expect themselves to be perfect, they go silent.”</p>
<p align="">Most of the book’s prompts ask for recollections or personal opinions.“Whatever perspective you bring to the book, I want you to find validation in some great thinker, that it’s okay to see things that way. That gives us all the freedom to be ourselves and less of who we think we should be, or who we’ve been programmed or conditioned to be.”</p>
<p align="">You can read the entire article <a title="here" href="http://www.wabash.edu/magazine/index.cfm?news_id=9126">here. </a></p>
<p> Like many other <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English teachers</a> &#8211; of all kinds &#8211; I feel rich in life experiences, but we seldom get recognized for our hard work.  We also also clearly make significant contributions to our grateful students and larger, positive global trends. And recognition feels good.   Therefore, I&#8217;m grateful that <a title="Wabash College" href="http://www.wabash.edu/">Wabash College,</a>  a small Midwestern college in a small town, taught me  to &#8220;disagree without being disagreeable&#8221; and see the big picture.</p>
<p>Ask more. Know more. Share more. Speak More.<br />
Create <a title="Compelling Conversations" href="http://www.CompellingConversations.com">Compelling Conversations</a>.<br />
Visit <a title="www.CompellingConversations.com" href="http://www.CompellingConversations.com">www.CompellingConversations.com<br />
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		<title>An ESL Author Looks at an ESL website with New Eyes</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Jan 2011 08:37:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Eric</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes we don&#8217;t see what is in front of our eyes. Today I learned a bit more about my own website from a fellow English teacher and friendly fan. A gentleman from Tennessee called my home, thanked me for the sample conversation materials, and asked some insightful questions about the updated Compelling Conversations website. I [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes we don&#8217;t see what is in front of our eyes.</p>
<p>Today I learned a bit more about my own website from a fellow English teacher and friendly fan.</p>
<p>A gentleman from Tennessee called my home, thanked me for the sample <a title="conversation materials" href="http://www.compellingconversations.com/sample-chapters.php" target="_blank">conversation materials</a>, and asked some insightful questions about the updated <a title="Compelling Conversations" href="http://www.CompellingConversations.com" target="_blank">Compelling Conversations </a>website. I appreciate his call &#8211; and his giving a practical suggestion on how to improve the site for adult educators by adding clearer language. The influx of new immigrants, mostly Spanish speaking with limited formal education, can be seen across the United States. As you might expect, many churches are providing many education and literacy programs for new immigrants in the South &#8211; often on a shoe string budget.  I&#8217;m glad that the free <a title="reproducible worksheets" href="http://www.compellingconversations.com/worksheets.php">reproducible worksheets </a>can be of some assistance.</p>
<p>Second, the gentleman&#8217;s call encouraged me to take a longer look at my own website through new eyes. Designed more for <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English teachers</a> than <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English language learners</a>, the revised site does include an entire section for students. The materials, however, are probably too hard for most English students to understand since they are written for high intermediate and advanced ESL students.</p>
<p>Fortunately, there are also  rough Google translations for the <a title="Compelling Conversations" href="http://www.CompellingConversations.com"></a><a title="Compelling Conversations" href="http://www.CompellingConversations.com" target="_blank">Compelling Conversations website</a> now for speakers of  46 languages. The long list goes beyond the usual suspects (Chinese, French, German, Korean, Spanish) to cover tongues ranging  from Albanian and Arabic to Vietnamese and Yiddish! That&#8217;s sort of amazing &#8211; even if the computer translations remain imperfect and contain many errors. Consider me jealous of my computer&#8217;s language skills! Wouldn&#8217;t it be great to just know 10 words in 46 languages?</p>
<p>Perhaps in the future. For now, I&#8217;m grateful for Google translations &#8211; and dedicated <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English teachers</a> who share their experiences about my small, evolving website and niche conversation textbook.  Maybe it is silly, but I still get a kick when &#8211; like today &#8211; an adult education teacher tells me about how their students enjoy the book &#8211; even when it is a bit difficult.</p>
<p>So please feel free to share your experiences, positive or negative, because we are learn from each other. As the cliche goes, &#8220;everyone is a student; everyone is a teacher.&#8221;  Today I learned quite a bit about my own website, its strengths and flaws. Have you visited the revised website yet? What worked? What could be improved? Do you have some suggestions for the next version?</p>
<p>Ask more. Know more. Share more.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Eric</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Reading remains a great pleasure and a helpful guide. Literature can also enliven our ESL classrooms, and discussing our favorite books opens up new possibilities. The humanities should be for everyone - including English language learners. Let us, as Emily Dickinson advised, "dwell in possibility" and bring more literature into our English classrooms.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>&#8220;A word is dead when it is said, some say.<br />
I say it just begins to live that day.&#8221;</em><br />
Emily Dickinson</p>
<p>Cheap pleasures can sometime be the most satisfying.</p>
<p>Reading, an activity that often costs nothing, falls into that category. Reading provides many pleasures and many insights. So does talking about reading.</p>
<p>Following a December ritual, I&#8217;ve been reviewing the year and find many reasons for satisfaction. Co-writing a monthly column called &#8220;Instant Conversation Activity&#8221;  in the newspaper <a title="Easy English Times" href="http://www.easyenglishtimes.com">Easy English Times</a> makes the list for the third straight year. Each monthly newspaper column in the <a title="Easy English Times" href="http://www.easyenglishtimes.com/">Easy English Times</a>, modifies and expands a thematic chapter from  <strong><a title="Compelling Conversations" href="http://www.CompellingConversations.com" target="_blank">Compelling Conversations</a></strong>, an advanced ESL textbook,  for lower level <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English language learners</a>. The August issue, for example, talked about watching television and favorite programs; the November 2010 issue celebrated the American tradition of choosing leaders in elections. (Immigrants, refugees, new citizens, and potential citizens often appreciate voting while too many American citizens fall into apathy.) It&#8217;s an honor to have the lessons used in ESL, EL/Civics, and literacy classes.</p>
<p>In reviewing the 2010 clips, however, my favorite column this year remains  <a title="Reading Pleasures and Tastes" href="http://easyenglishtimes.com/compelling_conversations.html">“Reading Pleasures and Tastes.</a>&#8221;<br />
Reading can be a great – and overlooked – pleasure. Reading allows us to imagine life in distant lands and times – and better understand our own lives and climates. It broadens our imagination, highlights absurd situations, shows new possibilities, and can deepen our sympathy. Since urban Californian classrooms often resemble a mini-United Nations, reading provides a passport to better understand our classmates and our ever-changing world. .</p>
<p>Yet too few American adults &#8211; including adult education students – allow themselves the pleasure of reading books and newspapers in English. We can see and hear on adult school campuses how the inability to read causes real problems. We know the many studies that document the links between illiteracy, poverty, and criminal activity.  One reason might be that reading builds empathy and instills information.  Reading can also provide solace, inspiration, and perspective.  Celebrating the pleasure and power of reading to the <a title="Easy English Times column" href="http://easyenglishtimes.com/compelling_conversations.html">Easy English Times column</a> audience, including adult immigrants, GED students  and some prisoners, seems appropriate. Perhaps it could have been called &#8220;Three Cheers for Reading – Even if Life is Hard.&#8221;</p>
<p>Yet I also like the Reading Pleasures column because discussing books has created some of my most poignant classroom moments. During a decade of teaching advanced adult ESL, we often read short stories, memorized proverbs, and wrote about living in Los Angeles and Santa Monica. Many ESL students also demonstrated their passion for literature. A Polish student sought help translating romantic poems, a Mexican immigrant constantly recited lines from Cervantes, and an Iranian woman journalist discussed her fear of reading banned books – even while in the United States.. Reading matters and transcends borders.</p>
<p>Let me give another example from a global classroom with a dozen or so different best languages. Each evening we would have a &#8220;brave volunteer&#8221; give a short oral presentation at 8:30 as a closing activity.   I wanted everyone to be a volunteer, but I left the choice of presenting to students. Some students introduced their hometowns, a few  gave product reviews, and many recommended movies. Topics and styles varied.</p>
<p>One night an older Korean woman gave an eloquent, moving book review of<strong> To Kill A Mockingbird </strong>that combined personal biography and literary criticism.  Chloe, not her real name, began smiling because she had just finished rereading her favorite book in its original language – English. She joked about how long it took, but she had patience. Chloe went on to confess that she often had racist feelings like some ugly characters in the novel. &#8220;But I learned from the noble character too&#8221;. Chloe stated that living in Santa Monica and studying English she had learned to overcome racism. Her daughter was going to marry a non-Korean – something once unthinkable. Then, returning to the novel, she concluded by quoting her favorite character.  &#8220;I think there&#8217;s just one kind of folks.  Folks. &#8221; Her daughter visited our class that night, and cried. She was not alone. Powerful. Poignant. Unforgettable.</p>
<p>Reading remains a great  pleasure and a helpful guide. Literature can also enliven our ESL classrooms, and discussing our favorite books opens up new possibilities. The humanities should be for everyone &#8211; including <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English language learners</a>. Let us, as Emily Dickinson advised, &#8220;dwell in possibility&#8221; and bring more literature into our English classrooms.</p>
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Create <a title="Compelling Conversations" href="http://www.CompellingConversations.com">Compelling Conversations.</a></p>
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		<title>Conversation Tip #9: Ask Clarifying Questions!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Sep 2010 06:28:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Eric Roth</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is a clarifying question? What do you mean? Can you be more specific? Can you give us some examples? What do you exactly mean? Sometimes our English students need help asking questions, especially critical questions that allow them to clarify concepts and better participate in conversations. One crucial skill that needs to be explicitly [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What is a clarifying question? What do you mean? Can you be more specific? Can you give us some examples? What do you exactly mean? </p>
<p>Sometimes our English students need help asking questions, especially critical questions that allow them to clarify concepts and better participate in conversations. One crucial skill that needs to be explicitly taught &#8211; after being informally modeled in class discussions &#8211; is asking for clarification. In fact, I consider the ability to ask appropriate follow-up questions a vital life skill. </p>
<p>Here are some simple questions that students can, and often should, ask to collect more information. I often encourage students to make a general statement or bold claim, and support their opinion with some reason.  Proverbs and advertising slogans are great for this purpose. </p>
<p>Sunshine promises happiness.<br />
Just do it.<br />
Laugh and be well.<br />
Bad luck can&#8217;t last forever.<br />
You create your own luck.<br />
Be bold. </p>
<p>Yet these absolute statements require qualification and clarification, especially in the context of an academic discussion or intense conversation. Therefore, it&#8217;s natural to ask some practical clarifying questions in a friendly, open-minded way. </p>
<p>Here are some useful examples of common clarification questions:<br />
What does that mean?<br />
Can you be more specific?<br />
Why do you think that?<br />
How did you reach that conclusion?<br />
Can you share some examples?<br />
To what extent, does that saying apply here?<br />
What do you really mean?<br />
Can you clarify that for me?<br />
How does that statement apply to&#8230;.?<br />
Can you spin that concept out for us?<br />
What are the implications of that statement?<br />
What are you implying? </p>
<p>We can also ask questions to confirm information or paraphrase.<br />
Are you saying that&#8230;.<br />
Are you claiming&#8230;.<br />
Do you mean &#8230;.<br />
So you are saying&#8230;<br />
Do you want me to&#8230;</p>
<p>This simple exercise is also quite helpful when teaching hedging language and formal definitions to add precision.  Since I primary teach graduate students who must participate in classroom discussions and answer questions after giving presentations, I consider this ability a vital skill for intermediate and advanced <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English language learners</a>. </p>
<p>How do you clarify information? What questions do you ask as follow-up questions when you feel confused? What questions do you teach your students to use to collect more details or verify information? Why? </p>
<p>Ask more. Know more. Share more.<br />
Create <a href="http://www.CompellingConversations.com">Compelling Conversations</a>.<br />
Visit <a href="http://www.CompellingConversations.com">www.CompellingConversations.com</a> . </p>
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		<title>Worksheet &#8211; or Cheat Sheet &#8211; for English Teachers to Observe Conversations and Lead Class Discussions</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 03:21:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many English teachers, especially novice ESL instructors, talk more than ideal - and allow their English students to talk too little. Ironically, many ESL instructors make this "good mistake" because they are so dedicated. What, after all, are they supposed to do while students exchange ideas and practice their speaking skills? 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What do you do while students are having conversations or talking in pairs? Do you have a &#8220;formula&#8221; for taking notes? Do you focus more on fluency or accuracy? </p>
<p>Many <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English teachers</a>, especially novice ESL instructors, talk more than ideal &#8211; and allow their English students to talk too little. Ironically, many ESL instructors make this &#8220;good mistake&#8221; because they are so dedicated. What, after all, are they supposed to do while students exchange ideas and practice their <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">speaking skills</a>? </p>
<p>When I taught an advanced ESL conversation class to immigrants and international students from many different countries at Santa Monica Community College, I developed a little routine. </p>
<p>First, I introduced conversation topics with a quotation or proverb and briefly introduce the day&#8217;s topic. Then I distribute worksheets (which became chapters in Compelling Conversations) with 30 or so questions, 10 or 12 key vocabulary words, and a few selected quotations or proverbs. Then students would  be paired up to interview each other and share experiences for 20-30 minutes. </p>
<p>What did I do? I simply circled around the room, briefly joining in conversations, taking notes, and indirectly correcting students by modeling a better way to ask or respond to questions. I also jotted down key comments and &#8220;good mistakes&#8221; &#8211; both grammar and pronunciation &#8211; that I would later share with the entire class. Further, I focused on the content of student comments so fluency and meaning was more important than accuracy. Ideas and perceptions mattered more than perfect grammar. </p>
<p>These notes, however, helped me guide the classroom discussion because it closely echoed their previous conversations. It also lead to dynamic discussions because several perspectives were acknowledged and considered. </p>
<p>Taking notes also gave me a chance to emphasize certain sound groups or related word forms. While the students were talking to each other, I was playing reporter and taking notes. </p>
<p>Here is a reproducible worksheet that captures that process of monitoring conversations and leading discussions. Use or lose. </p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<br />
Compelling Conversation Classroom Worksheet for Teachers</p>
<p>Topic:					Pages:				Date:<br />
# of participants:			# of groups:			Room:</p>
<p>Opening Quote:</p>
<p>Opening comments to class:</p>
<p>Starting time for conversations:</p>
<p>Conversation content:<br />
	- What did you hear the students say? Summarize. </p>
<p>Follow-up class discussion questions: </p>
<p>Review Vocabulary: </p>
<p>Pronunciation tips:</p>
<p>Grammar issues: </p>
<p>Other comments/observations:  </p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;</p>
<p>Ask more. Know more. Share more.<br />
Create Compelling Conversations.<br />
Visit www.CompellingConversations.com </p>
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		<title>Teaching Interview Skills Vital for Adult ESL, University Students</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 09:08:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How can English teachers encourage adult and university students to expand their language skills and improve their employment opportunities in a difficult economic climate? Personally, I&#8217;ve slightly modified my oral skills course this semester to provide greater emphasis on interviewing skills. Students interviewed each other for 10-15 minute videotaped mock job interviews for their first [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How can <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English teachers</a> encourage adult and university students to expand their language skills and improve their employment opportunities in a difficult economic climate?</p>
<p>Personally, I&#8217;ve slightly modified my oral skills course this semester to provide greater emphasis on interviewing skills. Students interviewed each other for 10-15 minute videotaped mock job interviews for their first assignment.</p>
<p>The use of videotaping students in class has gained far more acceptance in the last few years, partly due to the technological advances. OTAN, the adult education website established by the California Department of Education, even created an entire section devoted to using videotapes and videocameras in the adult ESL classes.</p>
<p>Another factor has been the increasing popularity of YouTube videoclips by students seeking practical information. I&#8217;ve combined those two trends by requiring students to find and review YouTube clips on vital employment skills and <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">speaking skills</a>. Students found and reviewed videoclips, and emailed them in as homework. Afterwards, I combined all the student evaluations into a single email that I sent to the entire class with a few editorial comments and minor editing.</p>
<p>Here is the homework sheet for that assignment. As with the reviews, &#8220;use or lose.&#8221;			</p>
<p>Getting Job Interview Advice from YouTube!  </p>
<p>Student Name:<br />
Class:<br />
Teacher:<br />
School:<br />
Date:</p>
<p>Please find an YouTube videoclip that helps people successfully interview for jobs – in English &#8211; that you would like to share with your classmates. Watch the video, take notes, and review it for your classmates.</p>
<p>Video title:<br />
Web address:<br />
Length:<br />
Creator:						 </p>
<p>Please describe the video.  </p>
<p>What interview tips did the video provide?  </p>
<p>Where do you think the video was produced? Why? </p>
<p>How practical did you find the advice? Why? </p>
<p>What was the strongest part? Why?</p>
<p>What was the weakest part? Why?</p>
<p>Who do think is the target audience for this video?</p>
<p>Why did you choose this video?</p>
<p>How would you rate this video 1-5 stars? Why?<br />
&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;</p>
<p>This simple worksheet combines research, critical thinking, and language skills. As <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English teachers</a>, we can use simple technology to help <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English language learners</a> develop their language skills, especially when they are motivated to learn and search out new sources. Instead of dismissing YouTube searching as a waste of time, let&#8217;s turn their interests into productive learning opportunities and share insights. After all, employment interviews often serve as a real-world language tests for our ESL students.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s make sure we give them the tools to pass those crucial tests.</p>
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Create Compelling Conversations.<br />
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		<title>Do you match? How do you know? Bringing Realism to Relationship discussions in ESL Classrooms</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[1. Why do (did) you want to get married?
2. Do (did) you have a checklist of qualities for a potential spouse?
3. What are the three main qualifications on your checklist? Partner?
Provider? Lover? Friend?
4. When did you fall in love? Did one person fall first? Who?
5. How did you know your lover was the one? How did your thinking
evolve?
6. Did you ever have moments of doubt? How did your thinking evolve?
7. Do you think people should live together before they get married?
Why? Can you share some examples?

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you romantically involved? Do you match your partner? How do you know? Who will you choose to share your life with? Are you considering marriage? Are you already married? Use these questions as a springboard to reflect on your options, choices, and desires on this Valentine&#8217;s Day. </p>
<p>Here is chapter #33 from Compelling Conversations that many friends have told me is better for native speakers than <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English language learners</a> or ESL classrooms. Perhaps they are right. On the other hand, I&#8217;ve had great conversations in my adult ESL and college ESL classes using this chapter too.</p>
<p>As both a happily married man of 14 years and the child of divorced parents, these  questions seem like smart questions to ask &#8211; even for romantics on Valentine&#8217;s Day. Perhaps especially on Valentine&#8217;s Day when the official propaganda of &#8220;love will conquer all&#8221; seems so pervasive. So whether <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English teachers</a> ask themselves, their partner, or their students these questions, I&#8217;d like to share this list on my blog tonight.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m also including a short videoclip from Discovery News that I found quite interesting on the origins of kissing and how that satisfying activity is believed to have spread around the globe. Enjoy! </p>
<p><a href='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e4gcT7f-4lY' >The Skinny on Smooching from Discovery News</a></p>
<p>1. Why do (did) you want to get married?<br />
2. Do (did) you have a checklist of qualities for a potential spouse?<br />
3. What are the three main qualifications on your checklist? Partner?<br />
Provider? Lover? Friend?<br />
4. When did you fall in love? Did one person fall first? Who?<br />
5. How did you know your lover was the one? How did your thinking<br />
evolve?<br />
6. Did you ever have moments of doubt? How did your thinking evolve?<br />
7. Do you think people should live together before they get married?<br />
Why? Can you share some examples?<br />
8. Are sex, love and marriage linked in your mind, or is each separate?<br />
How are they different?<br />
9. What are some endearing qualities of your companion?<br />
10. Do you like your partner’s friends? Do you respect them? Why?<br />
11. What advice have your parents and close friends given you? Your<br />
extended family? How important is their opinion in your decision? Why?<br />
12. Do you think you are marrying only an individual or are you also<br />
marrying your spouse’s family? How would you describe your<br />
potential in-laws?<br />
13. What does your partner do that annoys you?<br />
14. Do you expect to be the pilot, co-pilot, or passenger in the<br />
marriage? Why?<br />
15. What, if anything, would definitely cause you to divorce? Why?</p>
<p>Q U E S T I O N S A N D Q U OTAT I O N S O N T I M E L E S S TO P I C S • 1 0 5<br />
V O C A B U L A R Y<br />
Review these words and expressions. Circle the words that you know.<br />
potential &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
neat freak &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..<br />
spouse &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..<br />
nupital &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
conflicts &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..<br />
checklist &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..<br />
resolve &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
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<p>P R O V E R B S<br />
What do these proverbs mean? Can you share some other proverbs?<br />
The needle is always accompanied by the thread.—Korean<br />
Strange is the affinity that binds two in marriage.—Japanese<br />
Whoever marries only for beauty will live in misery.—Russian</p>
<p>T H E C O N V E R S A T I O N C O N T I N U E S …<br />
1. Thinking about personal preferences, do you like to stay up late or<br />
get up early? Do you have compatible sleeping habits?<br />
2. Do you have similar media habits? What about tastes in TV shows<br />
and movies?<br />
3. Where do you prefer to live? Country? City? Farm? Apartment?<br />
House?<br />
4. Are you a pack rat? Are you a neat freak? Are your styles<br />
compatible?<br />
5. Will you still love your partner when he or she is 64? Will your<br />
partner love you with wrinkles?<br />
6. Do you know an older couple that might be a model for a good<br />
partnership? Who are they?<br />
7. What activities do you enjoy in your leisure time? Will your spouse<br />
join you?<br />
8. Do you and your lover share spending philosophies? Do you shop<br />
together?<br />
9. Do you expect to live with older generations? Who? Why? Where?<br />
When?<br />
10. What is your approach to settling conflicts? How often do you have<br />
conflicts?<br />
11. Do you want children? How many?<br />
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<p>12. Do you believe in birth control? Why?<br />
13. How do you think your baby would look like? Why?<br />
14. What kind of parent do you expect your spouse to become? Why?<br />
15. Would you want your sons to be like the man you’re marrying?<br />
Would you want your daughters to be like the woman you’re<br />
marrying?<br />
16. Do you expect to follow family or religious traditions? Which ones?<br />
Why?<br />
17. If disagreements arise about children, how do you expect to<br />
resolve them?<br />
18. Do you think all money should be shared or should each spouse<br />
have separate bank accounts? Why? How do you expect to<br />
manage household expenses?<br />
19. What were the best gifts that you’ve given or received in the<br />
relationship?<br />
20. What passions do you share? What unites you as a couple?<br />
21. Do you have a favorite photograph of you as a couple? Can you<br />
describe it?<br />
22. Where do you want to travel together? What do you want to see<br />
together?<br />
23. What are you looking forward to doing together as a married<br />
couple?<br />
24. How do you expect your life to change once you are married?<br />
What are some advantages of being married?<br />
25. Do you have any tips or suggestions on how to create and preserve<br />
a happy marriage?</p>
<p>Q U O T A T I O N S<br />
Which two quotations come closest to your attitudes?<br />
1. “By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you’ll become happy;<br />
if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.”<br />
—Socrates (470-339 BC), Greek philosopher<br />
2. “Man’s best possession is a sympathetic wife.”<br />
—Euripides (480-406 BC), playwright<br />
3. “I’m so gullible. I’m so damn gullible. And I am so sick of being<br />
gullible.”<br />
—Lana Turner (1921-1995), Hollywood star married seven times<br />
4. “Love is the ideal thing, marriage a real thing; a confusion of the<br />
real with the ideal never goes unpunished.”<br />
—Goethe (1749-1832), German poet, novelist, and scientist<br />
5. “Marriage is a great institution, but I’m not ready for an<br />
institution.”<br />
—Mae West (1892-1980), American actress<br />
7. “Love means never having to say you’re sorry.”<br />
—Ali McGraw in Love Story (1970)</p>
<p>“Love is the ideal thing, marriage a real<br />
thing; a confusion of the real with the ideal<br />
never goes unpunished.”<br />
Goethe (1749-1832),<br />
German poet, novelist, and scientist</p>
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<p>8. “Marriage: A word that should be pronounced ‘mirage.’”<br />
—Herbert Spencer (1820-1903), English philosopher<br />
9. “No matter who you get married to, you wake up married to<br />
somebody else.”<br />
—Marlon Brando in Guys and Dolls (1955)<br />
10. “Second marriage: the triumph of hope over experience.”<br />
—Dr. Samuel Johnson (1709-1784), English writer<br />
11. “Marriage is a very good thing, but I think it’s a mistake to make a<br />
habit of it.”<br />
—W. Somerset Maugham (1874-1965), English novelist<br />
12. “A happy marriage is a long conversation that always seems too<br />
short.”<br />
—Andre Maurois (1885-1967), French author<br />
13. “A successful marriage is not a gift; it is an achievement.”<br />
—Ann Landers (1918-2002), American advice columnist<br />
★<br />
O N Y O U R O W N<br />
With your class partner, list three celebrity marriages that have ended in divorce. For each couple who divorced, list two reasons you think their marriage did not last.<br />
Then, list three marriages of well known people that have lasted<br />
more than 20 years. For each couple, list two reasons why you<br />
think their marriage lasted. Share  with the class.<br />
1. &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
2. &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
3. &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
1. &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
2. &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
3. &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
• . &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
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		<description><![CDATA["In sum, <em>Compelling Conversations</em> is a recommended resource for teachers who want to make their conversation classes more learner-centered," wrote reviewer Hall Houston. "It should be especially appealing to those who who to escape the confines of the Presentation-Practice-Production approach and do without a formal grammatical or functional syllabus. It reflects the authors' considerable professional experience, and would be a notable addition to any English teacher's bookshelf." 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Consider my global soul satisfied this morning!</p>
<p><strong>English Teaching Professional</strong>, a glossy magazine for ESL teachers and language school directors, gave a glowing review and strong recommendation to <em>Compelling Conversations: Questions and Quotations on Timeless Topics.</em> <strong>&#8220;In sum, <em>Compelling Conversations</em> is a recommended resource for teachers who want to make their conversation classes more learner-centered,&#8221; wrote reviewer Hall Houston. &#8220;It should be especially appealing to those who who to escape the confines of the Presentation-Practice-Production approach and do without a formal grammatical or functional syllabus. It reflects the authors&#8217; considerable professional experience, and would be a notable addition to any English teacher&#8217;s bookshelf.&#8221; </strong>The review also features a large copy of the book cover. Wow!</p>
<p>Houston also writes, &#8220;In my own teaching, I have found questions and quotations to be highly effective in promoting student discussion.&#8221; The review continues. &#8220;Questions are useful in that they require a response from the listener. Asking them also helps students master the tricky rules of the interrogative.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Quotations are brilliant flashes of wit expressed in the shortest space possible, often just a sentence or two,&#8221; observes Houston. &#8220;The authors have compiled a formidable collection of quotations by famous people from Napoleon and Aristotle to Tom Cruise and Sylvester Stallone. Some will have the students roaring with laughter <em>&#8216;My movies were the kind they show in prisons and airplanes because nobody can leave.&#8217;</em> &#8211; Burt Reynolds), while others require careful introspection (<em>&#8216;Love is not just looking at each other; it&#8217;s looking in the same direction.&#8217;</em> &#8211; Antoine de Saint Exupery).&#8221;</p>
<p>The reviewer goes on. &#8220;The authors also add some wise proverbs here and there. My two favourites were &#8216;Recite &#8220;patience&#8221; three times and it will spare you a murder&#8217; and &#8216;When money talks, truth keeps silent&#8217;, which are from Korea and Russia.&#8221; Houston, by the way, is the author of the outstanding ESL textbook <em>The Creative Classroom: Teaching Languages Outside the Book</em>. Coming from Houston, these words are especially pleasing.</p>
<p>My co-author Toni Aberson also appreciates that Houston, an English teacher working in Luzhu, Taiwan wrote the review in a British magazine with British spellings about an English textbook published in the United States. This international element adds a special delight to a long, three column review. &#8220;I just love it!&#8221;, exclaimed Aberson. We certainly live in a wonderful time to be <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English teachers</a>.</p>
<p>While I my copy of English Teaching Professional two days ago, the January 2009 issue has been out for at least a week. The review appears on p.44 in Issue 60. Subscribers can access the full review at <a title="ET Professional" href="http://www.ETProfessional.com" target="_blank">http://www.ETProfessional.com</a>.</p>
<p>This positive book review might help explain the recent surge of class set orders. It also helps explain the sudden collection of emails and calls from Vietnam, Russia, Italy, and Canada in the last week about Compelling Conversations and possible collaborations. The appreciation of fellow ESL professionals gives me additional confidence, joy, and popularity. Sweet!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I strongly suggest you establish clear expectations about both content and business matters. Some tutors even present a written contract outlining their rates, the location and times of meetings, and payment policies. One of my university colleagues makes students sign a form allowing her to videotape the entire tutoring session for her research. Another demands prepayment for packages of 10 sessions at a time. I've never been that formal, but I have also never been burned the way some tutors have been. In fact, I've had only very positive experiences with clients. 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you tutoring English students on <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">speaking skills</a>? How do you effectively teach <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">speaking skills</a> to a private English language learner?  What will you actually do for 60-120 minutes together? How will you make the conversation lessons meaningful enough that your client feels satisfied and wants to retain you for future lessons?</p>
<p>Speaking English means being able to actually holding clear, comfortable conversations. Yet holding a conversation in English remains a challenging task for many ESL and EFL students. Personally, I blame an old-fashioned, grammar-obsessed curriculum for creating the common situation where students can recite obscure grammar rules, but can’t discuss their weekend plans or talk about the movies. Yet here we are. Students want to develop their <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">speaking skills</a>, but crowded English classes provide little opportunity for authentic conversations. Therefore, many English students hire English tutors to help them develop their conversation and <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">speaking skills</a>. </p>
<p>Yet effectively tutoring English students in conversation can be more difficult than it sounds. What does the student want to learn? What will you really teach? How will progress be measured? While sometimes younger students just want to talk and be heard, I have traditionally worked older, more serious students. Time is money, and money matters. </p>
<p>I strongly suggest you establish clear expectations about both content and business matters. Some tutors even present a written contract outlining their rates, the location and times of meetings, and payment policies. One of my university colleagues makes students sign a form allowing her to videotape the entire tutoring session for her research. Another demands prepayment for packages of 10 sessions at a time. I&#8217;ve never been that formal, but I have also never been burned the way some tutors have been. In fact, I&#8217;ve had only very positive experiences with conversation clients. </p>
<p>Why? Perhaps luck; perhaps because I carefully screen potential clients. I only work with professionals, graduate students, and/or friends and spouses of friends with a solid foundation in English. Be explicit about what you want and don&#8217;t want to teach a client. Be prepared to provide options for potential clients that you reject. </p>
<p>I also set very clear expectations. This process eliminates potential confusion and establishes clear benchmarks. We will review X number of articles and discuss Y number of topics during the next month or semester. We will cover a significant amount of ground in a comfortable, relaxed manner. </p>
<p>For students who want to improve their conversation, I strongly suggest that you select the topic and materials in advance. You can use newspapers and/or magazines to find appropriate articles to begin the conversation. I used to assign the articles a week ahead and give English students my conversation worksheets. </p>
<p>Partly as a result of these tutoring lessons over a few years, I wrote Compelling Conversations: Questions and Quotations on Timeless Topics. The conversation book includes 45 chapters with over 1400 questions, 500 quotations, and 450 targeted vocabulary words. The combination of poignant questions, vocabulary lists, proverbs, and witty quotations makes your job much easier. Each chapter is self-contained.<br />
If you have a weaker student looking to improve their <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">speaking skills</a>, then I would advise using a picture dictionary. There are several fine choices. You might use the Oxford Picture Dictionary to open conversations, and I would be tempted to ask the client to bring in photographs and ads each week. Confession: I almost always referred weaker students to other English tutors who enjoyed working with lower level ESL students.</p>
<p>Naturally, you will need patience tutoring ESL clients on <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">speaking skills</a>. Be prepared to repeat words, listen very carefully, and remind students to pronounce word endings. Many students will want to work on their pronunciation. Recording your tutoring lessons can be quite helpful for students.<br />
You can also ask/assign them listening activities on the web. I like Voice of America&#8217;s Special English programs for intermediate and advanced students. You will have to direct lower levels to websites to practice their listening and <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">speaking skills</a> with drills. They will love the work; you might go mad repeating vowel sounds and noting stress words.</p>
<p>Finally, the key to tutoring ESL students &#8211; or anyone else &#8211; remains respecting the student, meeting their needs, and providing a solid structure for your lessons. I have found that using a set text, developing a known routine, and combining conversation, vocabulary and some writing skills makes for a successful and satisfying experience.</p>
<p>As William Shakespeare noted four centuries ago, &#8220;All&#8217;s well that ends well&#8221;. Therefore, you should also have the grace to know when to end your lessons. Some clients will want to keep working with you. Yet you remain the tutor. Therefore, set a clear goal for your package of lessons, and conclude when the students have reached that goal. As the Hollywood cliché goes, “leave them wanting more.” </p>
<p>What are your plans and goals for tutoring English students this year?</p>
<p>Ask more. Know more. Share more.<br />
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		<title>Exploring Cities in ESL Classrooms</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Cities attract the young, the strong, the ambitious, and the hungry. Millions move from countryside and across the globe to live in new cities every year. Cities provide jobs, culture, and education. Cities are exciting. Yet, sometimes danger also lurks in cities. Do you like living in cities? Which cities have you visited? Which cities [...]
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<p class="MsoNormal">Cities attract the young, the strong, the ambitious, and the hungry.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Millions move from countryside and across the globe to live in new cities every year. Cities provide jobs, culture,<span> </span>and education. Cities are exciting. Yet, sometimes danger also lurks in cities. Do you like living in cities? Which cities have you visited? Which cities you found most satisfying? Why?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Teaching English in Los Angeles and Santa Monica I’ve found that students, who come from across the globe, enjoy talking about cities. Some English students share stories about moving from rural areas and small towns to an international city; other students enjoy talking about their travel experiences. Discussions naturally touch on housing, employment, and lifestyle choices &#8211; or what education bureaucrats call &#8220;life skills&#8221;. <a href="http://compellingconversations.com/blog/2011/06/05/english-teachers-confront-billion-person-question/">English language learners</a> – whether adult immigrants creating a new home or university students living abroad – can reflect on their experiences and share insights discussing urban life.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">This month <a href="http://www.compellingconversations.com/pdf/exploring_cities.pdf">Exploring Cities</a>, one of my favorite chapters, is highlighted as a free, reproducible chapter on the  <a href="http://www.compellingconversations.com/">Compelling Conversations</a> website.<span> Like the other 44 chapters, this chapter includes over 30 questions, five proverbs, a dozen quotations, and five classroom activities. </span>Meeting new people, seeing new sights, and holding satisfying conversations are classic urban experiences. Why not bring those discussions and experiences into your English classroom too?</p>
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